Years ago a friend gave me this counsel: Make a list of all the lives you would affect by your sexual immorality. I did. The list includes Denalyn, my three daughters, my sons-in-law, my grandchild, and more. And every so often I reread it. The list reminds me that one act of carnality is a poor exchange for a lifetime of lost legacy.
Dads, would you intentionally break the arm of your child? Of course not. Such an action would violate every fiber of your moral being. Yet if you engage in sexual activity outside your marriage, you’ll bring much more pain into the life of your child than would a broken bone. In 1 Corinthians 6:19, Paul asked the rhetorical question, “Do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you?”
Actions have consequences. So what do you do? Simple…do what pleases God!